I keep looking at the pressure plate and i am beginning to agree that it is probably the cause of the problem. It may be something as simple as an uneven release finger adjustment. You can see that the heat spotted area has been doing all the work, the untouched area would only have come into contact once there is no remaining slippage.
Unfortunately, the one side of the pressure plate doing all the work would also force that side of the flywheel to also do all the work. As we can't see photo's of the flywheel, it is difficult to say whether it is heat spotted badly enough for it to really require changing.
Pulling the motor and removing the oil pan just to have the flywheel skimmed is a lot of work if it is not really necessary.
I have a hunch that the clutch disc could be reused, it has not been damaged by the problems and looks in good condition. The pressure plate is probably best replaced, the most important thing, though, is that the replacement is set up correctly. The release bearing should contact and press on the release fingers at the same time.
If the flywheel really is bad then it should be resurfaced, but if only very superficial discolouration then it is probably ok and will recover. Like I say, no pics so hard to judge.
I'd guess that with a new pressure plate and a new UJ, everything refitted correctly with a new rear mount, (front too if necessary), then all will be fine.
Mart.