It's very difficult to work out what is happening remotely.
Here's another scenario.
Due to the helical cut on the gears, when the car is being driven down the road and accellerating, the pinion is thrust forwards, away from the diff carrier. This puts the main load on the rearward pinion bearing.
When decellerating, the helical cut on the gears pulls the pinion inwards towards the diff carrier, putting increased loading on the forward pinion bearing.
You had damaged parts floating around in the area right near to the forward pinion bearing.
It is conceivable that the forward pinion bearing has been damaged or a flake of pin material has got in there. It may be this damage or contamination that is causing the noise. You don't hear it under power because the front bearing is only lightly loaded, it becomes louder on the overrun because on the increased load in that condition.
As I was typing I thought of a way to test this. If the front bearing is damaged, it will be noisy in reverse. Louder than on the overrun going forward. If it is loud when accelerating in reverse and quiet on the overrun in reverse than it could be the front bearing.
Or not.
Mart.
PS good cut away drawing of a diff unit on Mac Van Pelt's site.