To me, it's really nice to not be holding up traffic so much while pulling away from traffic lights and so on. The high compression head really helps with that, and, IMO, makes the car a much more practical driver for modern conditions. If your driving is all in the country, no big deal.
On our trip to the Williamsburg, VA meet (from Michigan) several years ago, two of us had HC heads and two were stock. We all motored along at the same speed on the level, usually in the 50-55 range. In the mountains, the HC heads pulled away, but eventually the others caught up, and we all arrived together. Being the slow poke would have bugged me, but others didn't seem be bothered at all--depends on you! As far as our monthly club tours go, Brent is right about the slowest car setting the pace, but I do enjoy being able to open it up getting to and from the tour gathering site, which can be a good ways away.
I've got all the goodies on mine, and I'm one of those guys Brent referred to who is glad he spent the money.
Steve