I don't see how the speedo drive gear could possibly wear such that the it will not engage the splines on the drive shaft and it is not possible to install it backwards.
Over the years of taking rear axle assemblies apart I have noticed that there is a space, maybe 1\8" between the front of the drive gear and the circular snap ring. I have come to the conclusion that the snap ring is not there to position the drive gear as the driven gear assembly will do that when it is installed. I suspect Henry put it there so that the rear axle assembly could be transported down the assembly line hung up-side-down and the snap ring kept the roller bearing, thrust washer and drive gear from falling out. The driven gear assembly was probably installed later when it was installed in a car and determined what gear size to use for the driven gear.
The thrust washer installed behind the drive gear has a series of holes around the circumference to allow grease to flow through to the roller bearing when pumped in through grease fitting on the rear bearing retainer on the transmission.
Every now and them I find an assembly where someone has installed two thrust washers in an attempt to eliminate the space between the front of the drive gear and the snap ring. This not a good practice as the two washers can easily block off the holes and the grease will not go through.
Best not to worry about that space, Henry may have put it there to confound and confuse the next 100 years of Model A enthusiasts. There is a Howard Barns drawing of the assembly in Bratton's catalog.
Tom Endy