I did one a couple of years ago, and as I recall, I did it in three steps. First, using a bare banjo casting, I found the total amount of gaskets necessary to get proper preload on the carrier bearings. Second, I set the pinion preload. Third, I assembled the carrier assembly and axle housings to the banjo and found how the gaskets from the first step had to be distributed, left and right, to get the proper ring and pinion backlash.
PS: Forgot to mention that I was assembling with new repro gears. The pinion has two bearings, the inner and outer. The inner gear gets pressed on. The outer gear should be a "tight slip fit" but the pinion shaft was machined the same diameter full length. Thus, when I was setting the pinion preload, it would be loose. I would tighten the nut a bit without any movement of the bearing. I'd then tighten a bit more, no movement. Then, I'd go a bit more and the bearing would jump making the preload too tight. I did it over and over before I got it right. I should have taken a tiny bit off the outer half of the pinion shaft. That would have made it a lot easier.