First off, the need for a fresh air respirator should not limit you. Yes they seem expensive, but if you only plan on doing one car then you can expect to get a lot back on resale. If you are doing a lot of cars then it is just a cost of safely doing business.
The filter masks will also work with some big ifs.
First the source of my material is a conversation with a university researcher. I was told that the carbon filters found on the masks will filter out the isos. The limiting factor is the reality that most masks are not fitting properly and will leak isos around the edges. No company wants to take risks so will not endorse their use.
You have to look at how you intend to paint. For the sake of the paint job you want to move a lot of air to clear out the overspray. You could also paint outside. If you move a lot air then the concentration of isos will be lower. Some guys paint in a sealed garage with little or no air movement- this is bad for the guy and bad for the paint job.
One other thing to consider. The isos are absorbed through the skin. I was told the biggest exposure was while mixing the paint- not painting. I used a disposable body suit for painting and nitrol gloves.
Plus the older paints with their solvents are just as bad except they kill off other parts of your body. Nothing about painting is good for you unless you have proper protection! It is just a necessary part of life if we want stuff protected.
I suggest that you learn how to powder coat. I picked an oven out of the trash and made it bigger out the back. I can do 19" wheels in the oven. I do a lot of small stuff with PC instead of paints. Yes, that costs money too. This cuts down on your painting. See Eastwood's and Caswel plating's forums to learn how to PC on the cheap. Buy only Tiger Drylac powders. I have used Caswel's and Eastwood's and I finally spent the $$ for Drylac and I know why they are more $ cause they work better.
To save some more money, but get quality under coat paints get SPI primers.
Always remember,
Nothing in this hobby is cheap as it is rich mans sport.