The resistors go from the "powered", flashing / pulsing side of the bulb circuit to ground, normal LED lights do not draw enough current to operate a standard flasher properly. If the flash rate is too high you may find that the manufacture already added resistance to the LED assembly so normal flashers will work. On the point of the resistors, depending on what type of resistor you are using they will change value with heat. Some are positive coefficient, meaning when they get hot the resistance goes up, others are negative coefficient, meaning when they get hot the resistance goes down.
When you are trying to increase the current through the flasher circuit you place the resistor from the powered bulb side (this is the side that flashes) to ground, make sure you do not place the resister on the supply side or better known as the battery side as this side NEVER flashes, and is before the flasher. Most turn signals feed the power to the flasher, from the flasher it goes to the turn signal switch then out of the turn signal switch to the bulbs. You place load resistance on the flashing hot wire that goes to the bulbs, no place else.