I have only done this 3 times so I haven't run into all the problems one could probably run into. Its easier if you're able to hold the oil pump in the block. The vendors have a little plug with a screw installed to handle this. Make sure to clean the pan and oil pump screen. I check the oil pump clearance also and usually sand the endplate flat. You'll need to figure out how to get the rear main caps off/on, I welded a 12 point 3/4" socket to piece of flat stock. The hardest part of the job is removing those ^%@(@& cotters on the front and center mains.
Remove the sparklers and pan/oil pump.
Do one bearing at a time. Don't get the cap turned around. Look for previous punch marks. Put them back on the same way they came off.
I don't think it makes a difference which/where you start, but, I do the mains first.
When checking/adjusting a main, I jack the crank[ just a little tension].
Foil method. Foil should measure .001" thick. One thickness should allow the crank to turn, 2 thickness's [double] should not].
Plastigauge. I prefer this. Oil the cap so the plastic doesn't stick to it. Make sure to remove it when done.
I'm a shim sander. Most would say this is wrong, but, I find it a royal PITA to peel the shims. So I just sand them on the piece of glass. I think its easier and faster. I also make both shim stacks the same thickness. This apparently isn't necessary, but, I do it anyway.
I set all clearances to .0015" and make sure the crank turns easily when done with each one.
I think you'll find that the rods won't need too much. The center main will need the most attention. The rear may need a little too.
When tightening the retainers, I just tighten the rods to 30 #/ft and then tighten just enough to install the cotter. On the mains I tighten to 70 #/ft and then do the same. I doubt you need to use the cotters, or you could install locknuts or plain nuts with lock-tite.
Take a good look at the bearings to make sure they are still good shape.