The gasket is the seal, not the threads. I doubt that having the threads broken at the top would allow oil, or combustion products, to leak out. (However I have been wrong in the past.) Screw down the plugs without the gaskets and then try to insert a thin feeler gauge around the circumference. Try a 0.002 gauge or a 0.001 if you have one.
Carefully examine the sealing surface on the top of the head to see if you can see where the leak is. Also the plug and gasket. If, as you say, they resurfaced the sealing areas on the head, they may be not perpendicular to the threads. Or the threads may not be cut perpendicular to the sealing surface.
A Model T has a pipe thread for the plugs and I used to use Teflon tape to seal them. That could be a fallback fix for you. On my Model A plugs, I use a copper bearing anti seize paste. The anti seize is also a good idea for any plugs, especially ones that screw into an aluminum head.
If you find that the head is defective, try again to get a replacement from Snyders.
Is it possible that the plugs are at fault? Perhaps the threads or the relief where the threads end are not correct and that caused the top threads in the head to break off.
Another thing to try are two gaskets for each plug.