Dave. Six years ago, I was diagnosed with a stage 4 cancer with tumers and masses all over my body. I had pneumonia and my left lung was non funtional. The Dr. walked in after the x-rays and told me that it wasn't good and that I had better call someone and get my affairs in order. After 5 months of chemo, I was in remission and thought I had beaten the system. Then I got the second blow, which occured on a Model A trip with the club. I felt very strange and almost couldn't drive my car. Finally I got home after 5 days and after a few horrible months of trial and error was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease. My immune system was trying to kill me, slowly turning my lungs into scar tissue. With the best care at Cedars-Sinai in Los Angeles I survived both illnesses although I continue to take meds to control the immune system. This leaves my immune sytem low, so during the winter months I have to be really careful to not get a cold which could turn to pneumonia. I knew on the day this all began that it was just not my time to go. My Dr's tell me I have a great attitude, but I know it is my faith in my higher self that keeps me here. Today if you saw me you would not know I ever had a bad day in my life. It is a miracle I am still here. The best thing I ever did was share the story of my illnesses with all who would listen and be grateful to be here. Sharing was the best medicine for me, I didn't have to to it all by myself. I never felt so much caring and support in my entire life. I am a psychologist and continued to see my patients, I drove my Model A and talked to my buddies as often as I could, it was a tough time with lots of ups and downs. I know its a very trying time for you and your wife, have faith and tell your wife you love her every day. The two of you will be in my thoughts. Leslie Pam