I just installed a new Snyders exhaust. No intake available, so I used my old one and had the flatness machined. I tightened 1,2,3,4 but about a turn or less at a time. My torque wrench was set at 25fp and the nuts are brass with the thick (Belleville??) washers. When the wrench had clicked at 25 across all 4, I waited a couple minutes and went across them again. All 4 tightened a bit further before the wrench clicked again. I stopped after the third pass. I assumed that this was gasket crush.
I too would like to know if sequence matters, especially when the manifold set was machined flat.
LOL! What woke me up in the night was that I suddenly remembered that I had applied aluminum anti-seize to the studs. In the back of the red Les Andrews book there is a chart regarding torque values. If anti-seize is applied, it says to reduce your setting 45%! So is my torque now sitting at the equivalent of 36.25? Well, in a few minutes of night terror, I was certain that I had stripped all four brass nuts and probably the studs in the block too....
I think the gasket is pretty thick and is compensating for any reasonable go-slow sequence.