Bob, The damaged connection between the distributor gear and the pump is the theory I am working with as of my post of the other day. This theory may change. I suspect that the distributor (when it was bound up with the gear/spring and I tried to remove it) may have lifted the gear out of position and "snapped back down" to kiss the the top of the oil pump a little too hard. This may have caused a little distortion of the slot on the top of the oil pump. This theory explains why the connection isn't working. Again, this is just a theory. I stopped by J&M Machine yesterday and discussed this with the guys (I happened to be in the Boston area). They think it is possible that this is what occurred as the metal on the pump shaft is softer than that of the gear and can be distorted if hit.
IF THIS IS THE CASE (and I don't know if it is), I'll find out on Sunday. I have my area's local Model A guru coming over to take a look. If the groove on top of the pump is now slightly distorted, it may be possible to put it back into shape with a REALLY LONG flathead screwdriver and some gentle persuasion. The other options seem to include using a distributor gear with a worn tongue or dropping the oil pan and dealing with the pump "hand on". J&M does not like the idea of using a distributor gear with a worn tongue. For the record, they have been very helpful in the matter.
I'll keep everyone posted.