If he is looking for more leg room to get in and out he can just lift the shift lever up and swing it out of the way. To bend it, I think the best advice would be to take the lever out of the transmission and bend it in a vice. Protect the lever with pieces of aluminum or copper. I think there is too much risk to the forks to bend it in the car. Getting the lever hot will make it easier to bend but will compromise any plating or paint.