My wife looks at my Model A, as my 'mistress'. Many other men have other types of mistresses. The advantage my wife has over many women, is that she not only knows WHO my "mistress" is, BUT my wife controls the CHECK BOOK, so she is quite right in understanding that SHE is in full control of my illicit relationship; And has the reasonable knowledge that with all my time and love in my Model A, I do not have the energy, interest, nor money - to support a FEMALE 'mistress'.
So my wife is a 'Happy Camper' - And she has an AAA Extended Miles membership card ! Another tactic that works well to help 'The Misses' 'buy into' your old car afflictions, is to let HER pick the body style, and let HER pick the paint color of the car. Once she is 'embedded' into the relationship, she (rightly, I think) can more comfortably think of herself as a 'partner' in the project - not an adversary !
AND as relates to 'troubles along the road' - we need to keep our own misfortunes in perspective. On Sat. July 19, Fred K-OR posted a link to a new 'old car' club website -
www.geaaonline.org . That website has a link to "Old Auto Songs", from 1904 (My Merry Oldsmobile - to 1940, broken down into two age brackets. If you were to listen to the songs of the early days of the automobile - you hear a mix of joy and, more frequently, sorrow - about owning / driving an automobile. In my own record collection (1898 - 1940 ) one of my favorites is Bobby North's terrific hit of 1904 "He Had to Get Under - Get Out and Get Under" (His Little Automobile). And then there is the 1907 hit by Billy Murray, "I think I ought not Auto Anymore"; and Ada Jones 1909 "(Troubles) Out in an Automobile" - well, the list of people with automobile problems goes on and on - even in the earliest of times.
We are fortunate to be able to join these people in experiencing both the joys and sorrows of owning and driving a piece of American history !