Marc and I have discussed this by phone, and he has several issues that are countering some of the advise from above. The head gasket appears to be damaged between cylinders 3 & 4, therefore having enough compression to push it upward on an even plane is likely not there. Also, I suspect the head gasket issue goes further, in that I have generally found that recently replaced heads that are stuck are usually due to someone being very generous with Copper-coat or Indian Head sealer to mask another problem. That is not to say that someone failed to re-torque the gasket after replacing, but the use of the sealer is what makes me suspicious. As I see it right now, using the head puller is the best option in Marc's situation.
Barb, let me also add that the rope trick can be effective on an engine that is coming apart for nspection and rebuilding however, it can be easy to unknowingly bend a rod or even damage a piston skirt if the head is stubborn. If by chance someone is only changing the gasket, this can become a bad situation if a rod gets bent or if a damaged piston comes apart later.
**Edit: I was slowing in writing this and Ron was quicker in saying what I was thinking.