X2 on Mr. Bidonde's comment. I grab the wheel at 3 and 9 o'clock positions and push and pull on both sides at the same time, then alternate pushing at 3 and 9. There should be no slop in the bearing if you want the toe in and steering to work correctly.
When alternating the pushing of 3 and 9, slack in other front end components may fool you into thinking the bearing is loose. Spindle bushings, spindle shims, tie rod ends etc. Verify the source. You may need a light and a second person until you get familiar with the process.
On this forum, I have read different tips for finding a good method. I do as Bob states. But, I have never backed up two slot positions. I have a shim under one side as it was always requiring nearly a full slot position and that was too loose. As I recall my shim was made from .050 sheet metal.
When I'm done, I spin the wheel and it must revolve at least 5 times. After driving, if I raise the car and retest, it spins many times more than the original 5 but still has no slack???
No ruined or hot bearings thus far, but I'm still learning here too. Any suggestions for improvements are appreciated.