I have to respectfully disagree with the last post, DO NOT simply go with their recommendation. Had I done this i would been up s^%t creek this past fall. The shop I chose was a well rated, experienced shop but had I not interjected they would have placed tractor oil in my transmission. (they asserted it was a good fluid, and period appropriate for 1940s and early 50s cars).
This was a hard lesson but trust your gut. Odds are you know more about this transmission than they do, which makes sense considering that even experienced shops do not rebuild '55 trannys too often. Ask if they kept and reused the original bronze (as i recall) plates. If they did, go with Dexron/Mercron III as previously mentioned. If they did replace them with a modern plate, well then that changes everything. As the last poster implied, this is great opportunity to have this convo on warrenty coverage, but don't assume that they read the ford 55 manual.