If a "Miss America" contestant ran out of lipstick and borrowed some from another contestant I don't think anyone would consider that cheating because it's just cosmetic, like a repro script battery is cosmetic. However, if for the "talent competition" , the contestant's talent was "I make my own clothes" and she went out on the stage wearing clothes made by someone else - because they looked better- that would be cheating.
I'm not even going to discuss breast implants.
BTW, Mike, It hurt my feelings when you suggested I come from a culture of dishonesty. I've been on this board, and the prior board, and ahooga for over 12 years and have helped my fellow hobbiests whenever I could. I've restored some cars (I currently own 4 Model A's) I've gotten a blue ribbon in judging and I have never suggested to anyone that they do anything dishonest.
Another BTW - I have always appreciated the good advice that you give out here.