They call it a packing nut so I stuffed a loop of wood furnace door gasket rope into the nut just before turning it onto the exhaust manifold. It was easy to turn on by hand with no cross-threading and it was easy to get it tight. Without the gasket the nut either bottoms out and leaves the pipe loose or it tightens up to the point where the nut cracks. The gasket also allows the pipe to move a bit, as it will do anyway.