When you take the manifolds off check for flatness. If the they are not all in a line or have heavy pitting get them surfaced as a unit. Also check the block in the area around the ports. Any deep pits around the (esp) the intake ports can be cleaned, filled and leveled with something like slow cure JB Weld. If you have the manifolds surfaced, dry fit to see if the gland rings need to be reduced in height to get gasket crush.
Copper is what we use, none of those fiber type. The fiber unclad burn out too fast but will work if you are in a pinch.