Here is how to take apart shocks.
Do NOT put in a BBQ grill.
First you need to heat the area between the seal ring and the cover. You are trying to burn out the seal. It makes life easy. You are not trying to heat things red.
I have a tight fitting ring with a pin and can move the sealing ring, but the following will make life easier. Pay attention some science ahead.
Metal expands when beat on and shrinks when heated past the plastic point. We are taking advantage of this to get these covers off without super fancy tools (I made the fancy tool, but not super fancy so it is a bit easier for me).
So I take a small ball peen hammer and holding the shock in my hand I go around doing lots of light taps. My goal is to expand the threaded area of the cover. At some point you can clamp in a big vice (it is better if you have a really big heavy vice- but that is another story) and use a strap to get the cover free. If it does not move then you have not hit is enough. It take a lot of hits light hits. The covers will be surprisingly easy to move if you do it right, but you are still likely to need a strap wrench to get it started. The strap wrench is more about how the cover is gripped then how much force you can put on it.
So now you have the cover and the ring off.
Now what?
I bought a deep impact socket and borrowed a 1/2" impact from a friend that works on trucks. I clamped the shock body in my over 100lb vice (let me tell you a large heavy vice is are really good tool to have in your shop). This is important as anytime you are about to use impact force to break something free you have to be sure you have the item held with enough inertia that the impacts are not being lost to moving the fixture. If you have to bolt the shock to something large and heavy do that. Then put the impact and let it rip. It takes a bit of beating to get it going. Several shock bodies need need a couple of heat and cooling shock treatments to break the inner cover. There I heated the body up, not red, and dropped it in water a couple of times and then the impact got the cover off.
Last is the needle valve. This is delicate. You have to heat up the vane body to burn out the packing and break the rust free. You can not put much force on the head of the valve without breaking it.
As a general rule. If you look in and see rust through the fill hole then the shock is not good. You are taking it apart for the cover and the needle valve.
Now when it comes time to put the cover back on you need some heat. Fit the cover and see how loose it is after cleaning the threads. Then do a couple of red spots around the threaded area. Important, let it cool down some then put in water. Then try it and see how tight it is. You need a snug fit. It is important to understand that you MUST let the temp of the cover get down to that of the cover before you decide to shrink it more. You can over shrink if you do not allow for the cover to cool enough.
Be careful about parts. There are different variations and parts do not mix well.
I have only taken apart about 20 shocks so others might have better ways. This work well for me and involves using my copies of tools I think Tom Weisburg (sp) made and ideas from Tom Moniz.