Two things to consider;
Paint chips and/or cracking in the paint can generally be contributed to excessive of mil thickness . Often times, less mil thickness of the paint creates a more durable finish. As mentioned, recognizing limits is a good thing however it is my experiences that if someone is paying attention and only sanding enough to remove the 'proud areas' of the texture only, then it should not be an issue about sanding thru. When in doubt, use a finer grit sandpaper and check your progress often.
Second, consult the paint manufacturer about the colorsanding window. Some paints will continue to harden so much that waiting for 30 days can be outside of the recommended sanding window and the paint basically becomes too hard to effectively sand. To achieve a good finish, we often colorsand within a day or two from spraying with 2,000 grit. After a few days to a week we move to 2,500 and/or 3,000 grit and continue to let the solvents evaporate. Often times we finish sanding with 5,000 grit only to let the solvents fully evaporate for an additional 4-7 day timeframe prior to beginning the buffing process. When this is done, the sanding and buffing is completed within a 2-3 week window.