The factory A would run 50,000 or more miles on the original babbitt.
The factory A was also tightly balanced.
The rods were built to +-1 gram at each end, pistons within a couple of grams and the assembled units in any one engine would be within 4 grams.
The crank would be machined with all the mains on center and the flywheel would be less then .001" off center. The crank and flywheel were also balanced.
The engines were run hard in harsh conditions and did not blow through babbitt. Not babied like most guys today. Keep in mind the factory cars were designed to run 60 MPH and they were run that hard even on the crappy roads of the day. Read the stories of that era and you will have a new respect for that car people baby today. They really can be run hard and put away wet and not be hurt.
Today we hear of many issues from people not building the engines to factory specs. Many have this attitude that is is just a simple old car. The truth is, when you get the prints out and start restoring the engine to factory specs you are building to race car tolerances. You have to put a lot of effort and thinking into making the engine right.
Today the rods are not balanced end to end and typical numbers are within 5 grams total weight. I have measured and aftermarket boxed set of pistons with 50 grams difference in the pistons (not typical). We know the cranks are being ground with the mains not on center and the distance of the throws not the same. The rear location of the flywheel we have seen off by as much as .008". Add in an unevenly worn cam with improper clearances and a distributer that is off a bit and you get an engine that behaves in odd manners.
As for babbitt failing. I would put more money on the babbitt (or inserts) failing from the guy messing something up. Good babbitt will take a lot of abuse. Babbitt that is a bit loose (very common) or babbitt poured not following the rules will have good reason to fail early.
While counter balancing would positive improvement, it really is not a needed expense for most cars. Of all the expenses on the engine, you want to pay for the highest quality attention to factory details. You need to truely restore the engine back to factory tolerances. That gives you a car that will run 60 MPH all day long and give you 50,000 miles (or more) of reliable life.
If the engine is not built right in the first place, the HC head, counter balanced crank and what ever else you throw in there won't help.