If both spark plug electrodes are pointy then the polarity doesn't matter. The electrons will jump easier from a pointed electrode. The miniature spark plugs used on model airplane engine in the 1930's and 1940's have both electrodes pointed and the instructions written for how to hook up the coil say that the polarity doesn't matter. The polarity also determines which point has the metal eroded and which point has the metal deposited. This happens over time and happens more with a condensor that is not the correct microfarads. If the condensor is the right size there should not be any metal transfer between the points.