I think most of us are Masochistic (self defeating) We love problem solving, we love the toil, we love the grease, dirt, oil, fumes, sometimes bleeding gets in the way, WHO NEEDS Bandaids- duct tape, electrical tape,a dirty rage and sometimes who needs anything. Swearing sometimes helps and most of the time nobody hears us or wants too. But we always have a dog that just sits and looks at us cocking it's head from side to side and wagging it's tail. But most of the time our wife's just say "do you need any help and we say NO! And beat ourself's up even more. AND WE LOVE IT.