Basically there are 2 reasons to use grease on both sides of the gasket. First, as Talkwrench mentioned, it makes the removal of the gasket in the future easier. Verses a glue type gasket sealer. Second, the two metal surfaces it is sealing will contract and expand due to heat at different rates. This allows them to have a little movement and stay sealed.
Two suggestions: You might have to soak the cork gasket in warm water to get it fit as you desire. Second: Do NOT get greedy and over tighten the bolts. Find the tork speck for the bolt. You might go to VAN PELTS site to find the imformation you need.
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