Ugh. Not good. You may have an accumulation of errors since I expect you welded shut the rivet holes in the rails and re-drilled those too?
I don't have a crossmember handy to measure - and measurement of the hole to what would be the question?
Perhaps better would be to show you pictures of existing unmodified cross members so that you can get a better "feel" for where the hole might supposed to be?
All of these and more are available on the 'net. I'll give you one's I thought showed the hole best but you can search yourself using google: type "Model A Ford Front Crossmember", get the result, and then click the google search "Images" where a whole page of pictures will result.
Here's my best shots.
Note how relatively close the hole is to the rear vertical of the cross-member.
You may want to check your front engine mounting yoke. The shelf part adjacent to the bolt that passes through the frame has a "flat" on it's backside which causes it to clear that rear vertical of the cross-member. This indicates how close it should be. You want to place your bracket on the engine in this orientation (some pressed steel brackets can be flipped around front to back and result in a misalignment.) See Vince Falter's pix of the different yokes and the flat one side shelf at
http://www.fordgarage.com/pages/afrontmounts.htm
As to the hole diameter in the crossmember, the vendors sell a A6034 brass bushing for the front motor yoke that has a stepped "locator." This step keeps the washer in place under the action of the spring and nut. You want your hole sized so the locater step fits into the hole in the crossmember.
Hope this helps,
Joe K