Thanks for the tip, I will try that also.
You're right, none of this explains the grinding sound, but I want to be sure that the electric controls are working before remove the transmission from the car and overhaul it again.
So today, I repeat all electrical checks, I removed the governor fom the transmission and test it on the bench, it's working.
I checked the kickdown switch, it's working.
I check the pawl engagement with the balk ring gear, with the solenoid cover removed, and the governor grounded, the solenoid is energized and stem move as it should (1/8 inch):
When I turned the drive shaft by hand, the solenoid stem move again (3/8 inch) and the pawl engage the balk ring gear as the drive shaft is locked in both directions:
I came to the conclusion that my relay is good (at least for test), that the governor is working, that the solenoid also works.
This is the relay that I am using:
This is the wiring diagram that I used to make my wiring system (except that the relay fuse is 15 amps as my car is 12 volt and I do not have rail switch on my OD).
I still don't understand why I can't hear the cliks from relay and solenoid when I drive the car on the road.
It seems that each electric system is working individually, but the whole system doesn't work...