I too was concerned about the amount of force applied to the shoulder belt anchor during a crash. I know I'm getting "techie" here but this was my kitchen-table analysis .... because my car is a coupe, the door pillars holding the shoulder anchors are located well-back of the front seat/occupant location. The stress on the shoulder belt anchor and body frames is thus applied almost side-ways to the pillar, creating a twisting shear force on the car frame and anchors, rather than a tension pull-out force. As well, with the door in closed position next to the pillar (yes, one hopes it stays that way), the door assembly should reinforce the pillar while absorbing some of the crash impact.
Re the reinforcing plate position in the pillars, the plates are about 1/4 inch thick and I positioned them horizontally (rather than vertically) so there is about 1" x 1"inch grip area on/under each side of the body pillar frames. The large flat washers on the anchor bolts that cover the body flanges are abt 3/16" thick and 2.5" OD and are held in-place by a shoulder on the anchor bolt shaft .... contributing to the resistance of twisting stresses.
Needless to say, I hope my analysis is never tested.