Hey Kansas,
Hmm, you did not complain about the parts that you rec'd perse, so your complaint is shipping costs. Correct me if I'm wrong here, but if shipping distances are longer or shorter, costs are more or less? So, if I recommend C&G (or others) and they are further away from you, then say..Macs, will you have to pay more to ship same parts longer distance ? Well, good service/good parts.. very important and we all seem to look for that. So, do we pay for more ship costs... for 'good' service by shipping further? Yeah, choice is good. Bad service and/or bad parts make choice easier....but shipping costs? Because fuel/payroll/advert/taxes,etc..on/on are a rising reality (if parts are good), can you really point to a vendors' cost.
I use C&G and Sac Vintage Ford, because they are in Ca and so am I. But, Calif has highest taxes/gas/etc.. in the US. I have personally darn near stopped buying from vendors...due to shipping costs/practices..that you stated. Make do with less and buy from barners when possible. IMV, it's not the 'fault' of vendors that we are in this situation....they could all go to sneaking in hidden $ practices as someone suggested.