Well? I've always had to trim my seals....
Read the instructions, mine, I think from "Best Gasket" said you can soak the graphite (grey) ones in oil, but not the Teflon ones.
I put a little assembly grease and some oil on the Teflon one, as the engine builder had fitted it dry. Possibly because it sat for a few weeks, the Teflon had stuck to the crankshaft. I took the oil pan off because he failed to follow my instructions so I could use a 80% full flow filter. So I decided to run a 100% filter which requires removing the oil pan.
Make sure the seal is pushed deep into the recess and then sit the gasket on the pan rail and trim the seal off with a razor blade. You will have to check what height they have cut the seal on the engine side.
The ends of the seal should meet at the same time the oil pan meets the block (with the gasket on, obviously).
I cut my seals about 0.010" higher than the gasket, but the recommendation is flush.
I much prefer composite gasket over cork. And I used a thin layer of Hylomar Blue sealant on both sides of the gasket, and where the gasket meets the seal.If you go with the cork be careful when you tourqe the bolts up as it is easy to split the cork, especially if you use grease or RTV .