I can completely agree with turning-off all lights and accessories....makes perfect sense! But...........WHY the necessity to keep the two vehicles separated? Are you inferring that you can't have a common GROUND between a 6v system AND a 12v system?
You ever think about this back in the 1950s? You have a brand new '55 Chevy....12v NEG GROUND. The pretty, young neighbor gal has a clapped-out '51 Ford....6v POS GROUND. It's 4:30 AM, 18ºF outside, and she has to be at the hospital as a nurse by 5 AM. The Ford won't start. She knocks on your door and asks if you can give her a push. You've been diggin' her chili from afar and would love to take her to dinner. You eagerly agree to push her Ford with your '55 Chevy. You line-up behind her with your bright lights on in the dark hour. Bumpers mesh perfectly. You give it the gas. She has the key turned-on. As she lets the clutch out in 2nd gear, the Ford perks to life. She turns her lights on and heads to work. You score BIGLY next Saturday night.
The point is, you had two completely functioning electrical circuits (a 6v POS GND, & a 12v NEG GND), fully sharing a common ground with the two bumpers mashed together. Even though you have a common GROUND, you still have two separate electrical circuits because of the way the two batteries are electrically isolated within their respective circuits. If you connected the two "HOT" posts on the two batteries together, then there would be sparks!
>(IF you connect a 6v battery to a 12v battery in PARALLEL, is the measured voltage 9 volts?)<
I believe you would have a hard time convincing me to 'JUMP' a 6v POS GND battery with a 12v NEG GND battery. I WOULD NOT have a problem jumping my 12v NEG straight through your 6v POS starter DIRECTLY. 12v POS to your starter connection, and my 12v NEG cable to your engine block. With your IGN Switch ON, there should be enough voltage left to fire your ignition. Would not matter if the two vehicles touched. It also would not matter if any of your lights were on, because I'd only be passing current THROUGH the starter. DD
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