I would pull the sway bar and go to the vise, some of these parts have been on so long they really have to be solid when you give them a wack to get them apart, might as well replace the two sway bar bushings while your at it.
There is a special press tool that is made for removing tie rods ends w/o damaging them. Available at any decent auto parts store, I've used one on every 40 sway bar (and tie rod ends) I've ever restored.
Tink,
A pickle fork works on the sway bar swivels. I don't care for a fork in any situation that I plan on reusing the part. They have a tendency to stretch the ball / socket as you surely realize.