C26Pinelake
BANNED
I for one have been constantly harassed for over two years and as such I welcome Ryan's new rules / procedures! They are long overdue. Thanks Ryan, Wayne
Exactly the reasons why Ahooga is almost dead..
Larry
agree ryan. can someone send a P.M.of ryans message to purty swoft. tom
Have you ever driven your antique car to a car show? Did you put your name on the placard and place it in the windshield?
And did the 'trolls' follow you home and steal your sweet ride? Probably not.
Real names on public forums are the same.
Have you ever driven your antique car to a car show? Did you put your name on the placard and place it in the windshield?
And did the 'trolls' follow you home and steal your sweet ride? Probably not.
Real names on public forums are the same.
There are social cliques in this community... And through posts on the forum as well as through private messages, these cliques seem to be constantly battling each other and seemingly measuring each other's manhood.
The reasoning behind it all baffles me. This is, after all, just a forum about old Fords. I can't, no matter how hard I try, find a rational reason for anyone to attack or ridicule another person over an old Ford.
I have a whole bunch of kids. One of them is 9 and her class recently got to debate on the lunch menu - what is served on what days and things like that. Now if you have a 9 year old, you know how important this is to them. It's like three or four on their life priority list.
Anyway, the parents were told to sit on the sidelines and let the kids go at it while the teacher moderated. They argued back and forth over things like pizza and burgers for an entire hour. In that hour, not a single 9 year old called another 9 year old a name... And not a single 9 year old told another 9 year old to "shut up."
Amazing given the way some of you guys treat each other, isn't it?
I have a theory. Kids are honest. Kids are wholesome. They haven't been tainted by society and they haven't had their ego stomped on by years of the kinds of abuse life can bring. Grown men on the internet, however, are entirely different. Some of them aren't honest. Most aren't wholesome. Some have battered egos. Hide them behind a computer screen with a silly username and an avatar and all of this is amplified to the point of nausea.
If we were all at a bar having this conversation, do you think anyone of you would tell anyone else in the conversation to "shut the **** up?" And if you did, how long do you think you would be welcome in the group?
So why on earth would you do it on a forum about old Fords?
I believe it's because some of you like the feeling of being something online you really aren't in real life. And some of you like to act online in a way that you are too scared to act offline. In either case, I don't like to host these kinds of fellas. I would rather them not be on my forum at all. Maybe that's my issue... Maybe I should be more understanding of these folks, but I've failed miserably when I have tried.
In any case, I'm done. I'm done baby sitting a bunch of kids at a name calling party.
- Want call some other guy a name because you disagree with him? Your account is gone.
- Want to constantly report another member's posts because you feel he is doing the same to you? Your account is gone.
- Want to team up on another group of members with all your buddies? All of your accounts are gone.
In short, I'm done fellas. It's either you or me... And it isn't gonna be me.
Note: To those of you that are just here to enjoy old Fords, learn a thing or two, or teach something to the masses - please excuse this post and understand that in order to end all of the drama, you might start to see some really common names around here gone.
I think name and phone number is a very bad idea.
Might as well give them your street address also!
1. I was involved in the late 70s with the BBS Bulletin Board System of computers (text only back then) ... there were some guys that posted names, phone and address.
At the time there were very few computers to choose from and they were not cheap! $4000 to $5000 each, plus $1000 for a printer. In 1979 a new Chevy Malibu cost $6000.
In 1977 that was a lot of money.
Guess which folks got their computers stolen?
2. Same thing with the early cell phones. The "in thing" in 1987 was to have a cell phone antenna on the rear window of your car. Guys at work asked "How come you have a hidden antenna for your cell phone? Don't you want everyone to know that you have a cell phone?"
Bingo ... you got it ... I do not want them to know.
Again which ones do you think got their cell phones stolen?
3. I do not want the criminals who are trolling the Forums to know where they might find my Model As, tools and parts ... why make it so easy for them?
If you've ever been stalked online, you'd not wish to put your real name out there..