Chris,
Please accept my condolences on Cheryl's passing.
I wish that there was something I could say that would magically alleviate your sorrows and grief. Unfortunately there isn't. What I can say is that there are many folks, both on here and in your personal circle of friends, who are thinking of you and praying that His hand will provide the comfort and healing that you need.
I know absolutely nothing of life or customs in Pennsylvania, but here in the heartland when the news of someone's passing goes out it's a matter of only a very short time before folks start showing up at the family's doorstep bringing casseroles and buckets of KFC. That's one of the ways we show love and compassion. I wish I were geographically close enough to do this for you and your family.
My previous invitation to drop in on us here in Missouri is and will always remain active. If you ever decide on a big road trip please include us in your plans.
And, oh by the way, that's a great pic at 3:39 of the video.